SIlver lining, Misery, Face it

Too many people miss the silver lining because they're expecting gold.
~ Maurice Setter

If you want to be miserable, think about yourself, about what you
want, what you like, what respect people ought to pay you and what
people think of you.
~ Charles Kingsley

Not everything that is faced can be changed. But nothing can be
changed until it is faced.
~ James Baldwin